Let’s be realistic here!

Is it possible for a mother of two active toddlers to look like she’s just stepped out of salon? Being impeccable groomed is impossible if you have children. And I’m not talking about Victoria Beckham who always looks like a fashion plate. And Posh spice had to hire at least two new nannies after the recent shift to the US.

The media lambasted the troubled superstar Brittney Spears, when she dared to wobble her breast-feeding boobies and hips at a mightily amused and somewhat stupefied public.

But I seriously find it difficult to understand, why it is so difficult for the media to accept a mother of two children for what she is. The resulting media glare drove the poor girl to one rehabilitation center after another ultimately resulting in losing custody of her two adorable tots to the somewhat weird father (what’s the deal with the hat?)  

So is it any wonder that the million of fans allover the world are driven to emulate the stick-thin figure of celebrities. Anorexia and bulimia are steadily on the rise because of the unrealistic expectation of looks and beauty the media forces down on expectant mothers.

The recent astonishing news being; although JLo is ecstatic about her pregnancy, she’s not so cool with weight gain. The star seems to be getting up at 4.00 am to exercise in the fourth month of pregnancy.  Definitely not safe! And what is the message it conveys to hundreds of adoring fans? That mother hood and pregnancy is a thing to be ashamed about. I seriously abhor this attitude which forces healthy teenagers to avoid food like the plague. Forgive the ranting, but all parents want the best for their children. So imagine what a parent must be going thorough seeing there beloved children intentionally starving themselves to death!  I can’t even imagine the grief!